Finally, our big day had arrived!   The venue was setup and decorated, food was being prepared, cakes had arrived, the wedding party was at the B&B, guests were trickling in.   After years of planning, we were ready to see the product of all that time and money and finally get married!   Sounds perfect right?   Well if anyone has been a part of a wedding or ever helped plan one, then you know it wouldn't be a wedding if something didn't go wrong.   Cupcakes were wrong, we were still waiting on reordered tux parts (we got them 15 MINUTES before the ceremony), my coordinator was way late (Unfortunately I had to use the venue's coordinator... Let's just say she was no C and D!!!), somehow we got down the aisle only a few minutes late only to have the sound mess up and exit to silence instead of the Wedding March.   Despite the things that did go wrong, I feel my wedding was perfect, because at the end of the day I was married to the most amazing man in the world (at least in my opinion)!!!   SO much goes into planning a wedding that often people lose sight of what the day is really about (I was guilty of this too, it is not easy being a wedding coordinator and putting your special day in the hands of other people), but at the end of the event it's not the flowers, cake, music, or food that really matter.   All that matters is YOU and your new husband/wife and all the friends and family that came to support your love for each other as you start the next chapter of your lives TOGETHER!